One of the key things to being in the home full-time is making a life for yourself in the home. I'm just beginning to learn what that means. It means that the home has to function as a place for rest, a place for recreation, a place for teaching, a place for nourishment (mind, body, and soul), a place for work and most important, a place for love, and don't for get a place for intimacy. Many families where children are in school full-time and parents work full-time don't spend much time in the home. But for those of us who do stay in the home full-time we have to find a way to make "life" happen within those 4 walls. I think it's a lot easier to figure that out for your children than it is to figure it out for yourself as a woman.
Marriage.................................It's not easy. It is a colorful creation full of ups and downs, highs and lows. And some desperate times. It cannot be done without God. It is His invention and only He can navigate you through it. But marriage is worth fighting for. You don't always have the energy to fight anymore and that's ok. It's ok to not be ok. It's ok to not be ok with your marriage. It's ok to not be ok with your life. Just know that not being ok, with your marriage, doesn't mean that it's over. Not being ok, with your life, doesn't mean that its over. In the last couple weeks I have struggled with temptations of epic magnitude. God has seen me in my struggle. Struggling with my emotions. Struggling with my desires. Struggling to stay faithful. He saw me. He didn't look at me and say "I can't believe you are thinking this". He didn't look at me ans say "I...
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