IDoing things in a way that make for peace at home, does not always feel like an option. Many times I put pressure on myself in ways that make me uptight instead of peaceful. This affects my husband and my kids. I am becoming more and more sensitive to it. Sometimes I feel like I have to pressure myself. I'm not sure if that's true. I truly get the most done when I'm inspired/motivated, not pressured. Trying to get stuff done by putting pressure on yourself, is like walking on a treadmill. You are walking but your are going nowhere. Pressure never results in relief, it only produces more pressure. Some people think that pressure and guilt help you get things done and change for the better. But really the only thing they are good for is to show you how much you need the Holy Spirit. You will find in the bible that the Holy Spirit inspires, He doesn't "pressure". Making peace comes from being "inspired" by the Holy Spirit, not being pressu